Magnets

Is it that each of us is born with our own force field? Is it possible that every day these force fields are drifting in and out of spaces where they attract and repel other force fields? Can greed interact with pain? Is there a relationship between desire and fear which can be measured or altered? Can white fall in love with black, night with day, hot with cold?
 How can two people be so unbearably different but still find a way desire each other uncontrollably?